Are unflattering pictures the actual truth?

That's a really good question! haha have thought the same about myself. I go by the rule of; you are never going to be able to see how others see and isn't it all perceived anyway (how many times have you looked at someone with your mates and all had differing opinions?). In the end you get to choose which one, which face do you want to have? I go with the best looking one :) Don't be scared about relationships, when they work they are fantastic and anyone worth loving will see you for who you are. If you are a good person there is nothing better looking.