Are unflattering pictures the actual truth?

You're always going to get different opinions on your photos/appearance in real life. I came across a Facebook and I thought the girl was very unattractive, but lots of people were complimenting her. So, what I'm saying is there will be somebody who finds you ugly, the next person may find you attractive. I'm having exactly the same problem as you with insecurities but I guess in the end we just have to move on. :)